Cambria Leann

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Balancing; A Part of Life

For a long time I have felt that there requires a balance in all things.
For a blessing to come, there requires a trial.
As well as after a trial, comes a blessing.
While I don't completely understand why this is, in some ways I am grateful for it.
It reminds me to be thankful of my blessings.
It reminds me to enjoy the happiness.

I believe it is impossible to understand how it feels to place your birth child in to the arms of another family for eternity, unless you have experienced it. Even when you know it's right, it still hurts sometimes.

But lately is has hurt when others have tried to tell me how is should be. Others who have not experienced this, and can not fully comprehend.
It hurts when those who once were supporting me, now seem to be out to put me down.

But along with this trial, comes a blessing. A blessing of being apart of a group of special people. There is a connection between people who fully understand, and have been blessed through adoption, no matter the circumstance. And I am blessed to know, and love people like this who help me through my trials.

My trial maybe others who put me down, but oh how am I richly blessed by the Lord to know so many amazing people.

A reminder that there is always a blessing to be found, if my eyes, and heart are open.


birthmothertalks said...

I hate it when others tell me how it should be if they hadn't been through it. I am glad that your able to see the bright side of things anyways.

Suz said...

Cami Lou...
You have a unique empathy that will help a gajillion people... And anyone who has something to say about it hasn't walked even one minute in your shoes and can NEVER EVER help another who has. You made the right decision and you knew it! Nobody else could have made it... though we welcome them to try to if that is what they need to be more Christlike! Don't ever doubt yourself... and say lots of prayers when you need to know if Heavenly Father is pleased... Afterall, His oppinion is really the only one you need to worry about pleasing.
Sure love you.